Lunar Letter

The Difference that makes a Tremendous Difference

There is an e mail message written by an anonymous author that I have received several times over the last few years.  The message is powerful and surely, many have received it.  The title is The Difference.  Nevertheless, it leaves unanswered a very important question.

What to do with the information?

Each time I have read it, I have thought not only of the words but of the best way to take action with regards to each suggestion.  Without action, words disappear in time.

The difference between wealthy and poor countries does not have to do with their age, natural resources, intelligence or ethnicity of the population.  The difference has to do with the Attitude of the people.  Attitude is the difference that makes a tremendous difference!

Attitude is the exponential component of the formula I have created for success and confidence:

C=eppa²

Success comes from Confidence which is a product of Experience, Preparation, Perseverance and Attitude².

Let’s take a look at ten interesting ideas to obtain and maintain a terrific Attitude² with action ideas for each.

Our integrity is the basis of our character.  Integrity with ourselves and others.  What do we do when no one is looking?  Our integrity does not depend on what others think of us but rather about what our own internal voice tells us.  While brushing our teeth each night we can look in the mirror and ask ourselves if we have lived that day with integrity in our actions.

 

Being punctual is a habit which is formed by our experience.  If our experience has taught us that everyone else will be late, we will tend to be late as well.  Instead of trying to get someplace exactly on time, we can arrive ten minutes early for everything.  When we get there, we will be calmer and better prepared.  To take advantage of the time, we can develop the habit of taking something to read, such as a book or a magazine so we don’t “waste” our time while waiting for everyone else to show up.

Being responsible to others highlights their importance in our lives.  When we honor our word and our obligations we show everyone that they are significant.  One of our greatest needs as human beings is to feel important.  In order to be more responsible, we can maintain a list where we keep the promises and obligations we have assumed.  Reviewing this list on a daily basis will emphasize the significance of our responsibilities.

 It is not easy to economize.  Today’s world is based on mass consumption.  Spending money today on the promise of tomorrow has become, in many instances, a badge of honor.  Never in history have we had such a variety of goods and services at our disposal.  To be certain, we should take advantage of modern advancements but only when all other basic necessities are satisfied. 

 To love our work sounds spectacular and it would be wonderful if we all did exactly what we love doing!  But what do we do when we are working somewhere which is something other than our “ideal” job?  First, is to utilize the marvelous mind we all have to create a strategy to obtain our dream job, if we have not yet achieved it.  Second, is to give significance to our job regardless of what it happens to be.  When we give importance to our job and give it our best effort, new roads within the same area or in a totally different area will open.

Order and cleanliness are often the first things we notice about an office, a house, a city or a country.  When everything is orderly and clean, we suspect the people our proud of that particular place.  As individuals, we can concentrate our efforts on our work place and homes as a starting point.  It is difficult to change an entire society but easy to commence with our own surroundings.  The seeds we plant today will grow and embellish our environment tomorrow.

People do not age due to the passing years but rather for a lack of interest in life.  While we are advancing, learning and growing, we remain young.  All of the health and beauty products that are currently offered pale in comparison to the internal beauty that radiates from a person who is progressing towards a worthy objective.  Reading, learning and studying are elements which assure we will always be young at heart.

Morality is evident in all we do.  It’s not a word to be heard only at church on Sundays.  When we have to make a decision, it’s important to take a few seconds to ask ourselves, “Is what I am about to do true and correct?  Could I tell my children what I am doing and feel proud?”  The answers to these questions will help to keep us on the right road.

Laws exist to maintain harmony within a society.  When laws are respected by most, there is peace and tranquility.  When laws are respected by few, hostility and anxiety reign supreme.  In many cases we are taught that being tricky and sneaky, or “looking the other way” is acceptable behavior.  Respecting not only the law but the spirit of the law allows us to be an integral part of society and not to isolate ourselves from it.

We live with our own thoughts 24 hours a day.  It’s natural to think of our own well being as well as those we love.  When this idyllic state, however, infringes on the rights of others, there is internal and external conflict.  The age old advice of treating others the way we would like them to treat us is the most effective procedure to respect the rights of others.

 Abiding by each of these values is no easy task.  To be sure, there will detours and challenges along the way.  If, however, we adhere to these principles and take appropriate action, we will have a terrific Attitude² which will lead us to achieve more confidence and success in all that we do.

Committing to an objective, establishing a plan and taking action is the start of an adventure that can take us to whatever destination we desire.

Rob McBride

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