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Lunar Letter

FUDs, You're Fired! |
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Our lives are a collection of emotions and events which
mold us with power and satisfaction or with weakness and discontent. In
his book Thinkertoys, Michael Michalko mentions three elements which kill
creative energy and control many of our thoughts and actions.
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F ears |
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U ncertainties |
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D oubts |
There are times when Fears, Uncertainties and Doubts play a
critical role in our lives. If we are in a situation where a very hungry
animal is chasing us in hopes of an easy meal, Fear better kick in to
create the adrenaline we need to survive. Today, the animals most likely
and capable of “eating us” are other human beings!
While it is important to have a certain degree of fear and
precaution for protection, FUDs are most likely emotions which diminish
power instead of adding value to our personal development.
For
example, a salesperson goes to present a new product to the company’s most
valuable customer. She has been chosen because of her capacity to
consistently make difficult sales and this sale could be the difference
between a successful product launch and complete failure. She is a
professional and has a terrific knowledge of her product and the benefits
the customer will derive from the purchase. Fears, Uncertainties and
Doubts take control as she waits in the reception area for her
appointment.
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What if they don’t like the product? |
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What if I forget everything I am going to say?
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If I don’t close this sale, I may be fired on the spot!
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These emotions create panic. Instead of concentrating on
her knowledge and success, she is thrown into the paralysis of analysis.
Her marvelous mind which should be focused on the preparation of the last
several weeks is now consumed by possible failure.

Our minds are powerful machines which generally obey the
instructions we give them thousands of times each day. We say, “Open the
door!” and magically our arm and hand coordinate to open the door. All we
achieve is directly connected with a thought, action or reaction.
FUDs are frequently the cause of our most trying times. I
suggest we Fire the FUDs! Just get rid of them. When Fear, Uncertainty or
Doubts enter our mind, we must have the power to replace them with
Conviction, Certainty and Confidence.
What’s the alternative? The minutes, hours and days flow
like a river on its ever changing course. We can create our direction and
destiny with powerful thoughts or diminish desire with FUDs. Let’s firmly
grasp the helm of life and enjoy this incredible journey we call life.
It's the Bounce that Counts!

Copyright © 2005
Rob McBride ~
Inspire C.A.
All rights reserved
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